I like Fast Company. While looking up the URL I read an article that explained why setting goals might be holding me back. The first major paragraph heading was "We Only Set Goals After Bad Things Happen." Check, but from my perspective I did not think that setting goals was a self-improvement project. It says that self-improvement habits take 21 days to stick. I'm at about 800 days and some of my goals have still not become a habit.
"Most Goals Are Bids For Self-Validation." This article is depressing me. Reading further it appears that goals really are an effort at achieving recognition from others. Well, my goal of employment has not resulted in recognition and my goals regarding monetization of this blog have also evaded recognition. Did I say this Fast Company article is depressing?
New skills, the acquisition of knowledge and personal growth set a better stage for change and accomplishment. There are a myriad of things that fall under this category over the past previously labelled "failure" days. I guess that's good. The bottom line is to simply focus on what's motivating you or what's important. I should give credit to the author, Suzan Bond, who wrote the "Anti-Goal Guide" (Twitter @suzanbond). What she suggests parallels my work in lean continuous process improvement. Set smaller goals along themes, ensuring measurability and strive for continuous improvement, eliminating all the classic forms of waste.
You can always go to Puyallup...
Back in the day I spent some time at Ft. Lewis, Washington. I'm sure it's all changed now but back then you were busy all the time and standing around all the time all without sleep. The short weekend leaves were exhausting but great. Typically they involved the things that young military personnel are prone to do. The standard line was "when in doubt you can always go to Puyallup." For whatever reason I went to a drag race at Puyallup, something that I had no interest then or now.
This video is from 1963 but this is the place I was in 1969. There was a short guardrail and no fence. We were about 25 feet from the starting line. I distinctly remember an engine blowing and a piston landing next to us.
Moving Firewood...
There are plenty of jokes about firewood as a fuel source. After you consider chainsaw costs, truck costs, injuries, beverages and time you could just buy propane or fuel oil and have some time off.
Generally I like dealing with firewood and all the opportunities it presents. This happens to be a wheelbarrow load of white ash. Dried appropriately it burns well, second to oak. Spitting is a joy. We also have some black ash of which certain components are used for basket making. It involves removing the bark and then peeling the inner bark into splints. Part of the process involves beating the log with a club. I've tried this but have not found it enjoyable
Time...
I'm doing more with my time, more physical things, more time outside, more time struggling with real tools and equipment. Lost watches and broken watch bands seem a monthly thing. Vowing to be more careful I bought another $35 watch. It quit working after two months. Others that have stopped have simply been discarded assuming that it was not worthwhile to have someone replace the battery.
Looking at the back of the watch I thought of my paternal grandfather whose retirement job was clock repair and cleaning. He'd sit in his basement under a small lamp and carefully do his craft. At the time I was uninterested. His tools were later sent to my cousin in Oregon. Digging around in my desk I found a set of screwdrivers that I purchased in 1990 or so to take apart a 20MB disk drive; I have no idea why i wanted to do that. Using the 1.4mm srewdriver I took off the back and removed the battery. Amazon Prime provided a replacement for $2.50. Hey...I'm a watch repairman. Bring me your watches!
Am I done?
In a conversation with the far-distant (geographically) son we discussed my pseudo-interview. His comment, paraphrased, was "well I thought you didn't want to do that any more anyway, that you wanted to do x,y & z." I need to thank him for reminding me of that and I need to thank Suzann Bond for reminding me that most goals suck.
